Written By: Sarah J Preston (AKA:Gold Star)
www.heavenplug.com
At first, While in hermit mode, I would do what I call a self check in. I would take good care of myself, because I work so much. At first, I would chase money all day, and If someone was in need I would always be there. But I began to realize, when I needed someone to talk to, no one was ever there. I became their store for love, but I had none left for myself and I would be tired and became a slave to my work. One day I decided to save up just enough money for a self care me day. A day that I didn't have to worry about money, and I would only answer to those that truly reciprocated my love. After doing this for about 2 months, I realized something...And that's when it dawned on me: The more ME time I got, the more my value went up in life. Everything began to improve! My skin would look better, people were more appreciative of me and my money would uprise too! Its now A MUST! Now I have to share, my self care 7 day theory...
In relationships with love, family, money and life in general, no one appreciates you until YOU appreciate YOU and know your worth and value. When in me time mode, you are self preserving, that's right you are pre- SERVING yourself! In those times, all the wonderful care you give to others, you are giving to yourself. You are literally doubling your self worth each day by the hour you give to yourself, and UPGRADING YOUR SERVICES by Self serving. It sounds selfish, up to the point when you have to give each and every day, to your job, a boss, your children, a spouse... You begin to realize that the more you love you, the way you love your loved ones, you actually have more to give and spare anyways, and they may up your pay, or give you roses, whatever you prefer by the way!
For example, take the Mona Lisa Painting. This painting has been preserved for centuries. It has served billions of people for many generations and more to come, and all she does is sit there and smile slightly. But if she hadn't been preserved, well she wouldn't have been able to inspire soo many for this long you see. There is no comparison when it comes to you. You are a human being, meant for great things and to make your legacy, you will need your me time to collect your thoughts, your worth and preserve your value to take great care, so you can do soo much more and leave your unforgettable lasting impression. What do you think your impression is? Write in the comment section below...
In regards to love, if you ever feel undervalued or underappreciated, its no loss! Its time to reinvent you, and celebrate! I invite you to take 7 days off from your relationship, a vacation if you will. To get away from it and to see yourself and relationship from an objective point of view. You will be surprised at how your significant other , or what other relationship you have in mind, will begin to chase you, desire you, appreciate you and love you even more. Do this with a plan in mind of course! Don't do it out of spite, really do this one for you. So that you know who you are in relation to your relationship to yourself and get to truly level up. Find yourself, love you and you will see everything in your life raise up and elevate!
Ideas of Things to do on the self love 7 day journey:
Get Your rest
Get a nice room in a hotel @ least 10 miles away from home
Buy yourself something nice & unique
Make your own art
Buy Yourself a valentines gift in the middle of summer!
Go on a vacation
Deep Clean your room
Organize your things
Write down why you are valuable
Make a list of what inspires you.
Jot down your goals and write solutions to each one( A new You resolution List!)
Take a salt soak bath
Buy yourself a birthday cake for no reason!
The list goes on, insert your ideas I know you have a few with your lovely self!
Basically, celebrate yourself as if its every holiday in a week, to enjoy yourself! If you have kids, well let them join in too and show them how its done baby! Celebrate life and your life will be a celebration! You are now a celebrity! You may feel selfish but, it will all be worth it because You will have soo much love & joy bottled up, you will have to share because you will be oozing a wealth of self love and care. And You know what else? "They" may come running to you like you are a celebrity like in the movies when your done and you will be appreciated because you know how to self appreciate. Can I get an Amen!? Let's Take good care and do this every month, share some of your Self Appreciation ideas and tips below!
Love,
Sarah AKA GoldStar.
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